Tools to help you build
self-awareness, confidence, and resilience in your teen!
While staying connected.
Self-talk, outlook, grit...these determine how teens approach life.
If you aren't shaping your teenager's mindset, the world around them will.
Built by a Middle School Principal and a Confidence Coach, who are also parents to 6 kids in their blended family.
Did you know that teens who feel supported by their parents are 70% less likely to suffer from depression.
Open communication between parents and teens increases resilience and positivity.
Kids can be hard to crack, especially in those teen years. There will be frustration and awkward silence. There will be one word answers and 'I don't know's. But DON'T stop connecting when it seems like they have no interest. They want to know you care, they need to know you believe in them.
Does this sound like your teen?
- Talks negative about themselves and doesn't give themselves any credit.
- Shows big emotions, that don't always fit the scenario.
- Scared to try new things, shies away when things 'feel hard'.
- Struggles with friendships or working through hard feelings.
- They are WAY to hard on themselves.
- Wants to achieve big things and will need grit and motivation to achieve them.
A Mindset Shift Will Help, And You Can Lead Them to This.
Kids learn plenty of math and science in school. But as parents, we know the true keys to success are the ability to:
Control our reactions
to life events
Overcome stumbling blocks in life
Face new & unknown
situations
Keep our mind focused on the good
With our tools, you can pass along encouragement through daily texts and learn more about each other with weekly dinner conversation prompts. They'll learn to self-reflect, articulate their thoughts and you'll grow a stronger connection.
Like learning any subject or sport, building strong mindset skills takes time, repetition and consistency.
So what's inside?
Parenting tools tailored for parents of teens, to take the guess work out of what to say and how to build up your teens mindset.
Daily Mindset Texts
We'll text you each morning a message related to mindset. You can then copy and paste and pass along to your teen, being an encouraging voice to them.
But we think these message will help you as a parent grow, too!
Library of Messages
You'll also have access to a full library of messages - incase your teen is facing a particular hardship and you want a message that relates to their current events.
This library is updated each month so you always have fresh options to choose from.
Word of the Week Prompt
Each week there's a "Mindset Word of the Week" with 3 questions your family can talk through over dinner.
When you ask each person the same question they may answer differently. Your family will grow to understand each other more and practice seeing things from another perspective.
This isn't just for parents...
grandparents, coaches and teachers use this too.
- Parents - Introduce healthy mindset concepts through your child's phone daily.
- Grandparents - Encourage your grandkids without struggling to find the words.
- Coaches - Uplift your team's character development with daily messages.
- Teachers - Post a daily mindset concept on your board for students.
What people are saying...
Jessica B.
I love this! The real magic happens when I know what's going on with my daughter and I can pick a message that correlates. It really helps the lesson sink in. And I never have to worry about find the right words, just look through this month's options and copy and paste!
Ryan D.
This is now part of my morning routine - login, find a message, send to my sons. It's easy and it gives us something to talk about on the way home from school.
Michelle S.
Did You See My Text is a game-changer for us parents! The messages are like little nuggets of wisdom that help me get through to my teen. It's made talking about tough stuff way easier and brought us closer. So glad I found this!
